How to do male and female masturbation?

There are many ways to masturbate, as it depends on one's preferences. Everyone already knows that women tend to masturbate by rubbing the clitoris and vulva, while men caress the penis with movements from the bottom up.

However, there are other things that can be pleasant, such as caressing your nipples, anus or belly.

It is also possible to be turned on by sexual fantasies or stories. Nothing is strange in the world of imagination!

How to masturbate?

Masturbation is a pleasant activity as well as useful, as it allows you to explore and get to know your own body. You also end up discovering what is exciting for you and what makes you orgasm. This can be useful information to share with your partner.

Having a stable relationship is not synonymous with the absence of masturbation practice. It's normal to masturbate. But not wanting to is also super normal. There's no rules!

How to do female masturbation?

The woman can caress the clitoris or the area around it with her fingers. She will probably think of things that turn her on. From simply thinking of a type of outfit they could be wearing, thinking of a particular person, or imagining an erotic story.

How to masturbate a vulva?

To masturbate a woman, one must rub the clitoris and the clitoral area: the labia and the entrance to the vagina.

Masturbation by a partner can lead to feelings of arousal and orgasm.

For every woman there is a path that may vary from time to time.

• Rub the area around the clitoris to the side or even the surface of the clitoris itself.
• You can increase or decrease the pace and pressure.
• One or more fingers can be inserted into the vagina.

It's good to ask the woman what movements she wants to be masturbated, ask her to lead her partner's hand or make a demonstration of what she likes.

Accessories and objects for female masturbation:

• Using the shower and directing the water jet towards the vulva can be stimulating for a woman.
• Using a vibrator or female sexual accessory.
• Rub the vulva on a surface that is comfortable and won't hurt. There are women who use pillow, bed corner, among others.

Creativity has no limit. But care must be taken not to put your health at risk.

How to do male masturbation?

Masturbation is one of the easiest and safest ways to practice or find ways to pleasure. It's about knowing your own body and figuring out what you like and don't like. Men can also have erotic imaginations to turn them on, just like women.

How to masturbate a penis?

The penis should be rubbed with the hand or fingers, usually in a reciprocal motion over the tip. Focusing on the glans is more stimulating to the point of orgasm.

You can vary the rhythm and pressure according to what you want:

• One can rub the tip of the penis, using the whole hand or just the thumb and another finger.
• Make long or short movements using your whole hand or just two fingers.
• Use lubricant to make your hand or fingers slide more easily.
• Do it slower or faster, holding the penis firmly or gently.

To masturbate a man it is also worth asking him what he likes or even asking him to demonstrate it, so you can see exactly his rhythm and how he exerts pressure.

Masturbation for circumcised penis

A circumcised penis means that it no longer has the foreskin that covers the glans, which is always exposed. Sometimes this makes the end of the penis less sensitive.

So, using lube can make you more slippery during masturbation. You can also rub the frenulum just below the glans for a more intense sensation.

Masturbation in a relationship

Let's start at the beginning: there's nothing wrong with masturbating, even if you're with someone.

However, when getting into the state of sex in a relationship, it's good to consider what the other person thinks about pornography and masturbation. Maybe she has had bad experiences with it in the past or is totally against it.

We believe that everyone should be free to explore and talk about different ways to pleasure themselves and their partners.

How to talk about masturbation with your partner?

Many people continue to masturbate even when they are in a happy, committed relationship.

But why would they do that if their partner pleases them sexually? There are several reasons, such as difference in the ideal sexual frequency for each one. But it's good to know that people who masturbate regularly tend to have a more satisfying sex life in general.

What are the reasons people masturbate, even in a happy relationship?

• Stress Release - Some people use masturbation to relax after a stressful day.
• They get sexually stimulated but don't want to have sex or don't find the right opportunity.
• They want to try out different techniques and movements, which they can then practice as a couple.
• They know the rhythm of their own body and use masturbation to get excited.

If your partner masturbating regularly bothers you, calmly ask why he is doing it. So ask if you can see it next time! Both men and women can get very excited watching their partner masturbate. That way, your partner won't be shy about doing something totally natural and you won't feel left out.