She's older: 6 tips on how to have sex with a mature woman
Making love to someone can be considered an art. It requires a connection between the parties and involves emotions and romance.
It's not just about satisfying or exploring the body. Love gives depth to sex, encourages both partners to use their mind, soul and body to reach each other's hearts. This is especially true for men who are in a relationship with mature women. They want sex with love!
How to make love with a new partner?
To know how to make love to a new partner, you must first understand how to make her lust for you, because women don't work like men.
In order to discover yourself, sexually speaking, you must stimulate her emotions so that she has sexual thoughts with you. And that's the problem. Most men forget the first step when they're with a new partner: building her trust.
For this, it is necessary to stimulate positive emotions, with surprises and sensual games. Gradually, the desire will increase.
Remember that love starts before the sexual part, so don't neglect the preliminary phase. Women find this more pleasant.
Foreplay is the best way to prepare your partner for what's to come, and it's a great way to increase the hard -on for both parties.
So don't skip this part of the romantic act and enjoy it.
How to make love to a mature woman?
A woman in her 40s or older is often experienced, so it can be more difficult to please her in bed. But, follow these tips to stimulate her and make her want you.
1. Create the mood:
Depending on what the woman likes and what makes her happy, create the perfect mood for her. You can vary the intensity of the lights and light some scented candles at home.
Fill the bathtub and add some bath salts and some rose petals to the water. Make sure the water is nice and help the woman get into the tub with you. Sit down with her, look her in the eye, tell her how beautiful she is and lean in to kiss her.
For the perfect setting, don't forget to add background music, not too loud, but that they can hear and enjoy.
2. Play with her clothes:
Many men rip off a woman's clothes and take her to bed immediately. If you're one of those people who thinks this is the best way to please your partner, think again.
You can do a lot of things with her clothes. Instead of just taking them off quickly, turn the simple act of undressing into an act of sensual pleasure for her.
When you start undressing her, do it slowly and seductively. Your fingers should slowly caress her skin and your lips should roam over her body and around the woman's private parts.
Play with what she's wearing, taking some of her clothes off and leaving others with her. If she is wearing a shirt and a bra, slowly take the shirt off but keep the bra on.
You can also use your teeth to open the buttons and maybe take a small bite of your belly and nipples as you open your shirt. If you want to take your bra off, start by touching it over the bra and gently and slowly massage your nipples until they harden. Once you know that she is horny, you can move on to the complete removal of that piece of clothing.
Pull it out of the dress and leave the panties in place. You can slowly rub your tongue over her panties until you hear her moan and writhe in pleasure. You can continue to tongue your panties until they are wet, then you can move on to other foreplay.
3. Make her happy with foreplay:
It is not for nothing that the word "foreplay" designates the fact of pleasing a woman.
While the man likes to skip this part, the woman likes to enjoy the time she spends on foreplay. This allows her to get in the mood, but also prepares her body for sex by lubricating herself and getting wet. That way, she will feel less discomfort during sex and will be more pleasant for her when you finally penetrate her.
For foreplay, try giving her a sensual massage, tease her by caressing her breasts and massaging her nipples and hips. You can also touch her private parts between massages to help her get even more turned on.
4. Perform oral sex on her:
Your partner may not always say this out loud, but once you touch her well, she will always appreciate it and want more.
Start slowly and use your tongue and fingers.
Your partner may like different things as you approach her, so keep experimenting and see what makes her feel good.
To know how to have a good oral sex with a mature woman, communication is essential.
5. Increase the temperature slowly:
Provoke it little by little. But don't leave a gap between when you give cunnilingus and when you start penetration.
After penetrating her, be sure to delay ejaculation. Go slowly and prolong the act to prolong the desire as well.
6. Take control:
Women love it when their partner takes over. But be careful, being dominant doesn't mean you have to focus only on your pleasure.
Instead, make sure you keep her pleasures in mind as you show her that you're taking control. As long as you are firm and strong in your control over her, do not harm her in any way.
Once you take control, talk to her and give her instructions on what to do and what not to do. For example, you can keep telling her to moan louder as you see her climax.
Having sex with an older woman is an extremely personal experience in which both parties must consider each other's feelings, needs and desires. For that, communication is the secret to satisfying and happy sex.
