Discover women's sexual fantasies and be surprised by what they imagine

Women fantasize about sex a lot more than you might think. What goes through their heads may shock you. Even the woman who doesn't seem to have these kinds of thoughts, even the married ones, believe me, very likely she also fantasizes about sex.

After all, this is normal. Besides, women watch pornography almost as much as men, so who's to say they aren't 'slutty' minded?

They may look like they're deciding how to respond to an email, perusing two rug options in a catalog, or even looking out the window. But their thoughts could be a million miles away. Of course this is not always the case, these examples are just to illustrate what we are telling you.

But why should you care about that? Because a lot of these fantasies are about things they don't want to tell. They fear partners will judge them. They are ashamed of these thoughts or believe that men would be offended since they may think of someone or something different from what they have in real life.

But the best way to have great sex and a really intimate relationship is honesty, so by knowing what they might be thinking and what triggers their fantasies, you can bring some of your partner's imagination into a mutual sexuality, either talking openly about it as a way of spicing things up between the couple, or bringing some of that reality to their sexual activities.

Check out examples of women's favorite sexual fantasies:

1. Having sex with a stranger

Some women may say that they only have sex with people they know well enough, but the truth is, many love the idea of having sex without restrictions, with no trace of responsibility when it's over.

The idea of having sex with a stranger means there's no history or future involved, and that's liberating. Women feel like they can do anything for them without the guilt that comes from those awkward moments when she sees the guy the next day, week, month or year. Having sex with a stranger removes any future worries.

There is a feeling of freedom in sex with a stranger for women because the possibilities are endless and life goes on normally afterwards.

2. Having sex with a woman or even having a threesome

Having sex with another woman is a fantasy that is on the minds of most straight women. The truth is that many of these women don't have a threesome in real life due to the emotional complications that follow. But in fiction, sex with a woman, a couple or a man and a girl is very exciting.

Some women go further and imagine their husband or boyfriend watching, which increases their sexual happiness because it goes beyond normal and on some level they want to be seen that way. This takes the name of voyeurism is a fetish for many women who fantasize about sex.

3. Role reversal

Women fantasize about their role changes during sex. For example, if they tend to be the sex-dominated version of real life, they have sexual fantasies about taking control in bed; and women who have a more powerful position in a company fantasize about being a servant or a more submissive figure during sex.

Real life can create stress on all of us, and a woman who has to be politically correct all day may have sexual fantasies in which she is a stripper, escort, or hooker during sex.

Sexual fantasies in which you are a person as opposed to what you are in reality are not only fun, but can also help you face the daily stress for the woman who would like to express herself differently but feels it doesn't suit her. Soon, she takes refuge in these fantasies.

4. Domination

Being sexually dominated is a chronic fantasy for many women. Making a reference to “50 Shades of Grey,” which reignited the classic female fantasy of becoming an object of slavery and domination by a lover obsessed with her sexuality, this fantasy continues to drive women — and likely always will.

Women buy books about stories in which the female figure is dominated, watch such films and keep the scenes in their heads. They love the idea of a guy who basically sees them as something sexual and is obsessed with them that way. The fact that this is not well accepted by society makes it all the more interesting, as something hot and forbidden. The sexually charged part of this fantasy is that the guy does it all - he's focusing all of his attention on her.

5. Having sex while being a virgin

Virginity is a symbol. She inspired great arts in all genres and mediums, and battles to the death for a woman's virginity. But while virginity can be epic, the actual act of losing it, for most women, is less than that. It can be intimidating, confusing and painful - generally not a good time for them.

But if she had known then what she knows now, it could have been glorious - and that's where her fantasies come in. She could be like a virgin in her own mind. Regaining her virginity imagining losing it the way she would like it to be is a common female fantasy.

The women recreate that iconic moment from when they were still virgins. They increase real-time knowledge of their own bodies and sexuality, making the loss of virginity all the more spectacular.

6. Having sex with a younger man

Being with a guy with an attractive body, young and energetic spirit, who probably doesn't have the experience that they do, is exactly what makes this fantasy so amazing for them.

Women not only like a young man's stamina and the muscles in his abdomen, they like to be adored for their ability to be sensual and to sexually educate you. In this fantasy, the woman is experienced and she is the one who guides sex, and in the end the young man besides adoring her for it, is grateful to her for having been taught.

7. Having sex with an amazing lover

Up to a third of women have difficulty reaching orgasm during sex, and many have never come. There's a lot of bad, lazy, boring sex out there! And there are women who have been married for decades and don't know what it's like to have great sex. They know it exists, but in real life they are not very satisfied. And even if they could do that by masturbating, they've never been ecstatic with a man before, and that's what they want.

That's why they fantasize about having sex with a man who is the ultimate lover. He spends time with her, flirts with her, cares about her, caresses her, knows what to do and how long to take, slowly arousing her into her best sex ever. She might not have this guy in her real life, but she fantasizes about him.

8. Sex in a five-star hotel

Sex in a five-star hotel with luxurious linens on a king-size bed, chilled champagne and delicious strawberries delivered by room service is without a doubt one of the most common female sexual fantasies.

The plush rug next to the fireplace is where they have sex for the second time. The fancy shower is where they have sex for the third time. And if the fantasy continues, the lovers meet in the hotel's refined bar and have a martini, then sexual tension takes over the chic elevator environment, and sex begins right there... This is a women's fairy tale.

9. Sex in public

This is a common sexual fantasy for women, especially those addicted to adrenaline and who like challenges. Whether having sex under a blanket on a plane, under a table in a restaurant, in the bathroom of a party, in the parking lot… that's what they fantasize about. The idea of having sex in a risky/forbidden environment and getting away with it is exciting.

10. Sex clubs and swing parties

Some women fantasize about having sex at parties where everyone around them has sex and is invited to participate. The thrill of doing this with multiple partners - one at a time or more than one at a time - is very exciting, there are several possibilities. This allows the woman who fantasizes about it to break out of restrictive traditions and be sexually free. They imagine being able to try different positions, different partners, watch others having sex… And then go home with their husband normally and happy.

11. Having sex with a friend's man

There are certain people women imagine having sex with, like their best friend's husband or brother-in-law. But, that cannot happen in real life. These guys are attractive and kind to them but they can't be on the radar of sexual possibilities because they're so familiar. Soon, they become the object of your sexual fantasies.