Has your girlfriend lost interest in you? Learn to spot the signs!
There is no better experience than falling in love. You get excited to be around someone who gives you feelings that you can't express in words. Everything in your life can go wrong, but when you're with the one you love, all problems seem smaller...
In any relationship there is a limit. At some point, the feeling of the honeymoon phase and the fire of passion wear off and the real work to maintain the relationship begins. You still have these feelings, but they don't seem as strong. The emotion is there, but it fluctuates a little.
If the feeling of love is not worked on, you and/or your partner may begin to lose interest in the relationship. It doesn't take long for you to wonder if the passion you once had still exists in some form.
Here are six warning signs that your girlfriend is losing interest and wants to break up with you - and what you can do to try to reverse that situation.
1. Sex becomes a chore
Having sex is a way of expressing our feelings in a physical way. Satisfying sex makes life happier. You don't have to have sex every day, but it's good to maintain an optimal frequency of sex. For anyone who is saying, "My girlfriend doesn't want to give it to me anymore," warning signs should ring in your mind. For a great long-term sexual relationship, you can try to spice things up a bit. Flirt with her, try new positions, be more daring, and let her know that you are crazy about her.
2. She regularly fights with you
Do you always feel like you're doing something wrong? It might not be you - your girlfriend might be having a few fights as a way of saying she's withdrawing. If you and your girlfriend are arguing a lot, take a moment and analyze the situation. Relationship fights can be a sign that someone is trying to run away from themselves. In that case, all you can do is try to make things better. Hear what she's trying to say beyond the screams. But never be her punching bag and never accept physical abuse.
3. She stopped showing affection and affection
Just because you've been with someone for a while doesn't mean it's time to break up. It's always good to keep the flame of desire to be with the person burning, as you continue with romantic dinners or physical affections outside the bedroom. If your girlfriend isn't hugging, kissing and complimenting you, pay attention to the signs. Kiss her, hug her, show her that you love her. If she doesn't respond after your repeated attempts, you should talk about it.
4. She talks too much about someone else
If your girlfriend talks a lot about someone else, who in her mind seems to be someone she might be interested in - you get a sense of how much this is too much - it's a sign that she's losing interest. If it bothers you, don't carry it all inside you. Tell her how you feel. Have a frank and mature conversation.
5. She doesn't include you in her life and plans
If you're surprised by her plans that don't consider you, that could be a sign. It's normal for a person to do things without being with their boyfriend or girlfriend all the time, but you should - at least - be aware of what's going on in their life. If she tries hard not to include you, let her know how you feel, try to work things out civilly. Don't wait until she completely excludes you from her life for you to make your decision. Until then, there may be a lot of suffering.
6. You felt the distance between you getting bigger
I think it's fair to say that each of us has intuitions. We can feel whether we are close to our partners or not. If you feel the distance growing between you, don't be silent. Fight for your relationship. Tell her that you love her and want to be closer. From there see what her reaction is, if she will approach or not.
Conclusion
The simpler truth is that a relationship should be a two-way street. The two involved must strive to be happy together, if that is the wish, of course. A happy relationship should be something light for both parties involved and not something that requires a lot of energy from just one person to maintain the relationship.
A relationship must be maintained on the basis of love, respect and trust. However, some relationships cannot be saved. It's bad to say this, but it's true. You're the only one who knows your girlfriend, so you need to think hard. You have to be honest about the possibilities. If there's an opportunity to take back what you had before, take it. But if not, let her go and move on.
Despite the statistics, their love and relationship can stand the test of time and any struggles. You feel something for this person for a reason. Sometimes it helps to go down memory lane and relive those feelings.
Relationships take work, but it's worth being with that special someone who makes you feel so good. Look for warning signs, be honest and take the necessary next steps.
