Incredible! Find out how to get an orgasm in your breasts

It is a truth universally known that breasts are incredibly impressive. Whether large or small, pert or slightly saggy, natural or surgically augmented, breasts are so much fun to look at - not to mention touch. It is true, we are all fascinated by female breasts. Therefore, you probably want to know how to play with them in a way that is enjoyable for you and your partner.

To know this is very easy, ask your partner what she likes! Many people really enjoy playing with their breasts. There is even evidence to suggest that some lucky people can orgasm from nipple stimulation alone.

Nipples have many nerve endings, and studies have shown that the nerve endings in the nipples stimulate the same part of the brain as the clitoris: the genital cortex. The nipples, brain and genitals end up "talking" during breast stimulation, using the spinal cord as a messenger system.

In a 2006 study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine - kind of old, we know, but there hasn't been much research done in the last 16 years - 81.5% of women reported that breast and nipple stimulation causes or increases arousal. sexual. That said, 7.2% of women said that breast and nipple stimulation lessened their arousal, so again, you should probably check in with your partner to find out what she likes.

And even if she wants you to play with her breasts, you should handle them carefully: while one person might enjoy being bitten lightly, another might find it a little painful. And please don't hit them or squeeze them as hard as you can, as you see in pornographic movies - unless your partner specifically says she likes rougher pranks and wants you to do these things.

Tips to make your partner orgasm through the nipple

According to a UCLA study, women who are dissatisfied with their breast size are 16 times more likely to hide them during sex. Which is a bummer, because you don't just want to see your partner's breasts, you also want them to be turned on.

It can help to compliment her breasts at the beginning of foreplay. "Comment on your high responsiveness to stimulation," says Patti Britton, Ph.D., a clinical sexologist, ie say "your nipples are so hard right now." Alternatively, something as simple as "Oh wow, you have beautiful breasts" could be the confidence boost your partner needs.

How to stimulate the nipples to have a breast orgasm?

Nipples vary greatly in terms of sensitivity, so if you're not sure what your partner likes, you need to work your way up to nipple stimulation. Start by gently caressing or massaging the top, bottom and sides of the breasts. Alternate lightly kissing her neck, earlobes and collarbone. This will help build anticipation and leave her wanting more.

When you feel your partner is ready - and if she's making a lot of noise or squirming in pleasure, she's probably ready - move to the areola, the dark-colored circle that surrounds the nipple, which is actually more sensitive than the nipple. nipple itself. Focus especially on the upper quadrant of the breast, between 10 and 2 o'clock (to make it easier to understand the correct location). It is the most sensitive part of the target. Gently caress the nipple and circle the areola with one finger, or circle the nipple with your thumb and forefinger.

If your partner seems to be enjoying things, use her tongue to draw circles around the nipple. If the nipple is erect, flick it gently with your tongue a few times before placing it in your mouth slowly and gently. Alternate between licking and sucking the nipple. If your partner has an inverted nipple, also called an inverted nipple, which about 10-20% of women do, to know how to stimulate you can do by touching, kissing, licking and sucking gently, but you may need to work a little more.

After a while, you can take a break from the mouth and go back to circling and gently stroking the nipples with your fingers - they may like the varying pressure.

Even if your partner is squirming and moaning in pleasure, you shouldn't get carried away and bite or pull on her nipple without her consent. If you feel she might like different things, ask, "Do you want more?" or "Stronger?" While some people really like to play a little harder with their hard breasts, others don't, and you don't want to interrupt the good time by crossing that line without her consent.

In a study conducted at the University of Vienna, researchers found that large breasts were about 24% less sensitive than small ones. "This is probably because the nerve that transmits sensation from the nipple is stretched," says Alan Matarasso, a plastic surgeon in New York City. So if your partner has larger breasts, you may want to spend more time stimulating the outside of her breasts, just below her armpits, with your tongue or your fingertips.

Likewise, if your partner is pregnant, breastfeeding, or menstruating, her nipples will be sensitive. And that assumes she wants you to play with her breasts - but some don't, especially if they're breastfeeding.

If you like accessories, take your breast and nipple play to the next level using nipple tweezers or suction devices. These toys provide a different and more intense sensation than simply caressing or pinching with your bare hands. Nipple clamps also allow for consistent nipple stimulation, leading to intense orgasms. Your partner can wear them the entire time you are having sex, freeing your hands to touch other parts of her body.

The clitoris deserves its moment. 85-95% of all people who have a clitoris need external stimulation of the clitoris to have an orgasm. So if you're trying to deliver a nipple orgasm, combine nipple play with external clitoral stimulation for an intense orgasm.

When it comes to playing with the temperature in your breasts, run a cold (or warm) object around your nipples and then over each of them. You don't need a lot of equipment. Simply take an ice cube out of the freezer and eat it. Try holding the ice cube in your mouth and use it to draw circles around the areola. Now combine all of that with some clitoral stimulation. To provide a surprising feeling of warmth, you can take a sip of hot tea before gently sucking on your breasts.

To make this even more eccentric, you can gently restrain your partner. If you don't have handcuffs or other restrictions, simply wear a T-shirt or tie to tie your wrists above your head. Have some safety scissors nearby, just in case.